This is a question from anonymous reader: “many people say that indifference towards girls is a good strategy as it shows that you’re not desperate or needy; on the other hand other people say that acting decisively and being direct is much more effective in the end; how to combine those two?”
Very good question indeed.
Dealing with men who are into pickup I met a lot of wonderful people. However, not everyone is cool and the worst are those who don’t understand “no”. Someone told them to be persistent but they’re obtrusive, nagging and importunate. What’s even worse – they can’t figure out why girls don’t like them.