I’m always surprised when within a Twitter argument someone shows up with rational approach and valid arguments. This time it all started with Rivelino‘s poll that included Samuel Hersh‘s quote “If you’re interested in getting married, be ruthlessly honest about your motivations while dating”.
This is a question from anonymous reader: “many people say that indifference towards girls is a good strategy as it shows that you’re not desperate or needy; on the other hand other people say that acting decisively and being direct is much more effective in the end; how to combine those two?”
Very good question indeed.
Dealing with men who are into pickup I met a lot of wonderful people. However, not everyone is cool and the worst are those who don’t understand “no”. Someone told them to be persistent but they’re obtrusive, nagging and importunate. What’s even worse – they can’t figure out why girls don’t like them.
Someone told me recently that few girls he know stumbled upon my blog and despite the whole PUA stigma they found it mostly true and refreshingly honest. I wasn’t surprised. I believe that what I write about is mostly common sense backed up by experience. Then I started to think – have I became Purple Pill instead of Red Pill?
There will be times in your dating life when a girl will try to force monogamy on you. Because if you follow all the best rules, including “sex first and then (maybe) a relationship” you’ll make her attracted, addicted and in love with you. And it’s going to be tough.