Can Porn Be Good For You?

Not a porn... but it could be.

This week is sex week. Well, at least on my blog but I also hope it will become such in your lives. To transition from mental masturbation last week to the awesome topics of pleasure and bodily fluids let’s start with porn. And when it comes to that topic everyone in the community says the same thing.

 

Porn Is Bad For You

There are numerous studies on the effects of porn (and masturbating to porn) on healthy males and the conclusions aren’t good for anyone who pays for a subscription on a porn site. And while we’re at it – who does that with all the free porn out there?!

I’m not going to educate you. There are plenty of other sites, posts, texts and articles that are going to tell you that you’re better without porn. You can either accept that or not.

Everyone knows alcohol is bad for you, yet most people drink. The same is with porn except that almost no one thinks it’s harmful.

If you have a problem, any problem, if you have any erectile dysfunctions, sex or libido issues, anything out of the ordinary – masturbation and porn should be the prime suspects. If everything is ok – I’d still recommend quitting both just to find out how you feel without them.

 

#nowanks

I suspect that many of the bad effects of porn are the result of masturbating to porn rather than merely watching it. Let’s face it – who watches porn like a movie? Usually hitting play is quickly followed by some skin on skin action, brief euphoria and the feeling of guilt.

Masturbation sucks. It’s an easy way to release the sexual tension which is big motivation for approaching girls and pushing for the close (i.e. sex).

Some guys approach and then don’t follow up the leads claiming that they are not into them. Unless they are fucking 5+ other girls – they’re lying. They are either scared or they wank too much.

From what I’ve found out masturbation is different in its effects from having sex with a girl. You can usually fuck another women right after you had sex. But you lose all your desire after wanking off. So just don’t do it.

 

Use, Don’t Abuse

When it comes to something easy and pleasurable it’s far too easy to become addicted. Even if it’s not an addition (yet) then you might develop a bad habit. And it’s going to ruin your life little by little.

Not a porn... but it could be.

I can’t embed a porn clip in here… or can I?

Such is the nature of life that most of the easy, pleasurable and enjoyable things are bad for you in the long run and those that are good require hard work, dedication and sacrifice. And for most of us it’s impossible to live a life of pure diligence.

If you’re not easily addicted then touching yourself once a month, a beer once in a while, some porn during a very long and lonely evening or a reefer during a visit to Amsterdam won’t do you any harm. You’ll be far worse beating yourself about every slip up than actually slipping up every now and then.

You can’t get better with anything unless you track it. If you must start an addiction journal (or “habit journal” if that sounds better to you).

However, you can’t use it as an excuse. You have to be on track most of the time and exception should be exactly that – an usual thing, a mistake or… a tool.

 

Strategic Use Of Porn

My experiments with both #nowanks and #noporn were interesting. I had no problem in quitting masturbation and after two months it just became a forgotten art. Have I felt different? Maybe a little bit hornier in the beginning but since I always have few girls that I’m sleeping with it wasn’t an issue.

Rejecting porn and nudes was quite different. As it turned out after two months of not watching porn my libido was low. I had no problem having sex but my desire to approach other girls and fuck everything that moves was for most of the time gone.

What jump-started my daygame motivation was – surprisingly – a different kind of porn session. I just watched some clips, ogled hot bodies, and listened to loud moans to put myself in a sexual mood without even touching myself. Next morning I woke up with a huge boner and desire to find a new girl.

Sometimes I even watch some clips before I go out to daygame. It helps with displaying the sexual intent. Don’t try this at home unless you can refrain from masturbating.

Since that experience I’ve been using this technique to push myself to approach more and be more sexual when I’m not feeling like it. “I have no interest in hot, young girls” is a terrible excuse. But remember – it’s just watching, not touching! Replacing real sex with masturbating to porn is a colossal mistake.

Because real sex is better than anything you’ll ever see on your computer screen.

tddaygame
 

Daygamer, traveler, adrenaline junkie. Obssessed with working out, coaching daygame and living life to the full.

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