Two Ways Of Reapproaching

Quick tip this weekend: reapproach! Well, sometimes…

Reapproaching is fun. Sometimes even more than actual approaching but you really need good vibe and calibration to pull it off. Especially when you’re doing a second initial reapproach. But let’s focus on the basics of: why, when and how.

As to why the answer is simple: a girl walked out on you (or past you) when you could sense she was into this but she’s either shit testing you or she’s just shy. The usual clues are that she is smiling wide or blushing or looking at you with glowing eyes. Yet she still goes…

That can happen on two ocassions. Either she walked past you during/after your opening line but she did enjoyed that happening. Reapproaching gets you additional point for being ballsy enough to go after her as she already rejected you once! It could also happen during a conversation when she suddenly excused herself with “I gotta go, bye!” and left too fast for you to deliver the “one more thing” line. Of course do reapproach only when the conversation wasn’t awkward and in fact was rather promising.

At this point it should be very easy on to “how”. Just ran after her and say something cheeky enough. Like “Hi, it’s me again. I thought I should introduce myself or this gets weird. My name is…” for initial reapproach and “Hi, I wouldn’t forgive myself if I just let you go like that. I enjoyed that little talk and I think we should continue it over a drink. [continue to close]” for closing one. As always – think of your own line suitable to your style and personality.

It’s not hard or sophisticated but it can get you more number closes. And that counts.


Male-female relationships commentator. Also a traveler, adrenaline junkie and, believe it or not, introvert. Still obsessed with working out, coaching daygame and living life to the full.

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